Instinct

Instincts: we are all born with them, it's innate. They are either survival, reactionary, or conditioned (learned). So why is it we oppose them so often. We all know the right thing to do, but are fighting so hard to run in the opposite direction. Like, I had two thoughts that I put to the back of my mind, even though I knew I was right, I convinced myself I was wrong. I felt so vindicated when I realized the thoughts I had were so very true. So chances are if you are battling something, you already know what you should do. You're just looking for an excuse, some reason to feel better about your decision. Because God forbid you're wrong and end up looking like a fool.

This is why I've learned it's best to wait out things that make you look foolish and weed out the things that are already making you feel foolish. We fight the truth because sometimes it means that we aren't in control of our own lives. And to feel helpless is one of the worst feelings we can endure as human beings. And instincts about people can be tricky, because you might know there is good person inside, but what use is it on the inside if no actions manifest on the outside? People can change, people can want to change, and people can even change others. But ultimately someone's true nature will get the best of them, and that's how you know when someone hasn't changed. Words are little things with so much power. When someone continually uses their words to take away your power and isolate you, then you know what you have to do. That instinct is something that is learned the hard way. You can't just flip a switch and turn your feelings off. But you can cultivate a sense of confidence and outrage at the treatment you received. You are better than that, and I would let anyone put me down, friend or lover.

And if your instincts are all jacked up? Borrow someone roses. That's what friends are for.

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Doc McValentine

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